At you fingertips is the portal to salves for all ailments, stimulation of all kinds, and even connection to a million Facebook friends. You have to be happy.
No, you’re not happy you say. Not even among the multitude of online joys?
Perhaps today you are sad, the necessary down day to balance he many ups. Everyone has them. Those days when no amount of downloadable bandwidth can shift the blues — not even a pirated episode of ‘Housewives of Toowoomba’.
And this is as it should be for happiness is transient. It cannot be permanent — not even when the government measures gross domestic happiness, as happens in Bhutan. Feeling sad sometimes is a necessity in our natural volatility of mood and feeling.
Perhaps we have to accept a few home truths about happiness. Here are 5 to start with:
#1 Happiness is transient
It comes to visit but never for too long, but we are fortunate because
#2 Happiness is present everywhere and in almost everything however torrid
Because it resides within us and all we have to do is express it, and yet
#3 Happiness elusive and slippery for most of us
and is smothered by our fear and this means that
#4 Happiness easier to find when you don’t look for it
because what that does is to calm the fear and allow more frequent expression of all emotions, and when all is done we find that
#5 Happiness is not life’s holy grail
Now that is something else altogether.